Sunday, September 13, 2020

Dating

When you really like someone you will put on a brave face and ask that person out. If all goes well then eventually you might start dating that person, but here is the thing though you can't act like a jerk to the person. Being mean isn't going to solve anything it will just make it worse. A relationship has to be built on love and trust along with other things not on hate.

If you love someone then you need to act like it. If you are a jerk and say degrading things to the person who you are dating then brace yourself for a break up because it will happen. No one wants to be made to feel like they are crap and that they are less than who they are. It goes both ways; so girls don't be a jerk to boys and boys don't be a jerk to girls. 

Conflict is something that will happen at one point or another in any kind of relationship, but it doesn't have to be escalated when both of you are able to communicate effectively with each other. If you know that you are the type of person who overreacts remove yourself from the situation, so that doesn't happen. It takes two people to argue, so if one of you starts a fight you will have to be the bigger person and stop it before it gets out of control. 

Communication is key in a relationship, so if you have trouble communicating then find a way to be able to be a better communicator. That way there won't be a lot of fights that will happen because you will know how to explain how you're feeling to the other person. Dating can be difficult, but if you are able to handle the things that make it difficult in a positive way it will make it a little bit easier.


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